The confusion over how your ex feels about you after a breakup can be a little confusing, to say the least. What your ex says and does can send you a mixed message. You don't want to believe that it's truly over yet they say that they're done. They have broken up with you. On the other hand, you can't imagine that your ex feels nothing for you. How do you know what they feel? Is there still a chance and can your ex still be in love with you after all?
Wresting with your emotions and gauging what your ex might do next can be a futile effort. Attempting to read into their actions and words as you grasp for a sliver of hope that your relationship is not beyond repair can be difficult. You want to know if your ex misses you and if they feel any sort of love for you right now. There is a very good chance that your ex is every bit as confused as you are right now, as well. Their emotions might run from hating you one moment to missing you the next. To be sure of what is going on with your ex, here are some tips that should tell you how your ex is feeling about you these days.
While it might be a simple coincidence or your ex might just being friendly, if you hear that your ex has contacted some of your close friends or family then there's a chance that they still feel something for you. If your ex misses you or if they are looking to find out how you are, touching base with your family or friends is the next best thing to contacting you directly. It all might seem very innocent but you know in your heart that something is afoot. Your ex is having a difficult time and they want that connection with you even if it is through a third party.
You might be tempted to give your friends or family members the third degree when you hear that your ex contacted them. Resist this urge and instead remain cool and calm. Keep your private emotions and thoughts to yourself. It might be tempting to drop a few hints to your mutual friends that you miss your ex or that you are hoping to get back together. This will only make things uncomfortable for your friends and family. Make your ex contact you directly if they want to know what is going on in your life. Leave your friends and family out of your private matters until the day comes when you let them know that you're back together with your ex.
The next clue that your ex still feels something for you will be that they contact you directly. They might have a question or a lame excuse to get in touch with you such as wanting to return some things that they found or yous or to ask you a simple question such as where something is that they misplaced. The truth is that they are contacting you to either see how you are, hear your voice again or to open up the lines of communication. Your ex will have moments when they will miss you every bit as much as you miss them. The desire to connect with the person that was once so close to them can be overwhelming and they will reach out to you in this moment of weakness.
Try to resist the urge to talk about the breakup or anything having to do with getting back together. You can be glad to hear their voice or happy to receive their message but keep you wits about you. Keep your thoughts and emotions to yourself concerning getting back together. If you feel that you aren't ready to see your ex at the moment, find an excuse to put off meeting with them or avoid their phone call for the moment. It is crucially important that you exude confidence and happiness at this point in the process of getting back together. Your actions and body language will speak volumes so resist the temptation and don't speak about getting back together until they voice their desire.
One good place to look for signs that your ex is still in love with you is on their social networking profile. While spying on your ex is frowned upon, you probably know that your ex looks at your profile to see what is going on in your life. Likewise, your ex knows that you look at their profile so they will sometimes post pictures or write about how happy they are with life right now. Chances are that the majority of information that your ex posts to their profile will be directed towards you without mentioning your name at all.
Checking on your ex through social networking sites is probably one of the most dangerous things you can do. The emotional torment and wasted time looking at updates and trying to read into everything can confuse your mind. It's easy to create some very bad scenarios inside your mind and it is very much a one sided conversation at this point. Try not to read into things too much. If your ex is posting photos of them with new people or even someone that they just started dating then you can be almost positive that they're trying to make you jealous or make it appear that they have moved on. This will often backfire on them. Not wanting to show that they are in emotional pain will cause them to hide their grief until they finally break down one day. It will happen. Just be sure you are prepared for that day.
Wait for any or all of these signs to appear in your life and you can be sure that your ex misses you and your love. You may be tempted to contact your ex or even voice your opinion about what they appear to be doing. Avoid this temptation and instead let your ex come to you first. Let your ex be the one that caves in. Let your ex be the first one to say I love you. Let everything happen naturally but be prepared for that moment when it arrives. Work on your self-confidence and get back to being that person that your ex fell in love with in the first place and you stand a very good chance of getting back together with your ex.
Wresting with your emotions and gauging what your ex might do next can be a futile effort. Attempting to read into their actions and words as you grasp for a sliver of hope that your relationship is not beyond repair can be difficult. You want to know if your ex misses you and if they feel any sort of love for you right now. There is a very good chance that your ex is every bit as confused as you are right now, as well. Their emotions might run from hating you one moment to missing you the next. To be sure of what is going on with your ex, here are some tips that should tell you how your ex is feeling about you these days.
While it might be a simple coincidence or your ex might just being friendly, if you hear that your ex has contacted some of your close friends or family then there's a chance that they still feel something for you. If your ex misses you or if they are looking to find out how you are, touching base with your family or friends is the next best thing to contacting you directly. It all might seem very innocent but you know in your heart that something is afoot. Your ex is having a difficult time and they want that connection with you even if it is through a third party.
You might be tempted to give your friends or family members the third degree when you hear that your ex contacted them. Resist this urge and instead remain cool and calm. Keep your private emotions and thoughts to yourself. It might be tempting to drop a few hints to your mutual friends that you miss your ex or that you are hoping to get back together. This will only make things uncomfortable for your friends and family. Make your ex contact you directly if they want to know what is going on in your life. Leave your friends and family out of your private matters until the day comes when you let them know that you're back together with your ex.
The next clue that your ex still feels something for you will be that they contact you directly. They might have a question or a lame excuse to get in touch with you such as wanting to return some things that they found or yous or to ask you a simple question such as where something is that they misplaced. The truth is that they are contacting you to either see how you are, hear your voice again or to open up the lines of communication. Your ex will have moments when they will miss you every bit as much as you miss them. The desire to connect with the person that was once so close to them can be overwhelming and they will reach out to you in this moment of weakness.
Try to resist the urge to talk about the breakup or anything having to do with getting back together. You can be glad to hear their voice or happy to receive their message but keep you wits about you. Keep your thoughts and emotions to yourself concerning getting back together. If you feel that you aren't ready to see your ex at the moment, find an excuse to put off meeting with them or avoid their phone call for the moment. It is crucially important that you exude confidence and happiness at this point in the process of getting back together. Your actions and body language will speak volumes so resist the temptation and don't speak about getting back together until they voice their desire.
One good place to look for signs that your ex is still in love with you is on their social networking profile. While spying on your ex is frowned upon, you probably know that your ex looks at your profile to see what is going on in your life. Likewise, your ex knows that you look at their profile so they will sometimes post pictures or write about how happy they are with life right now. Chances are that the majority of information that your ex posts to their profile will be directed towards you without mentioning your name at all.
Checking on your ex through social networking sites is probably one of the most dangerous things you can do. The emotional torment and wasted time looking at updates and trying to read into everything can confuse your mind. It's easy to create some very bad scenarios inside your mind and it is very much a one sided conversation at this point. Try not to read into things too much. If your ex is posting photos of them with new people or even someone that they just started dating then you can be almost positive that they're trying to make you jealous or make it appear that they have moved on. This will often backfire on them. Not wanting to show that they are in emotional pain will cause them to hide their grief until they finally break down one day. It will happen. Just be sure you are prepared for that day.
Wait for any or all of these signs to appear in your life and you can be sure that your ex misses you and your love. You may be tempted to contact your ex or even voice your opinion about what they appear to be doing. Avoid this temptation and instead let your ex come to you first. Let your ex be the one that caves in. Let your ex be the first one to say I love you. Let everything happen naturally but be prepared for that moment when it arrives. Work on your self-confidence and get back to being that person that your ex fell in love with in the first place and you stand a very good chance of getting back together with your ex.
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