Wednesday, March 5, 2014

The Growing Trends In Male Wives

By Leticia Jensen


In the recent days, there are drastic changes in gender roles and the expectations of society. This is mainly because times and people are changing at an alarming rate. One of the outcome of these changes is the male wives. All over the world, we now have gay people. The men are marrying each other and one of them plays the woman role. In some instances, a man and woman exchange their positions and the husband acts as the wife.


These reversed roles have been accepted and practiced by many people across the globe. This arrangement seems to have been welcomed and embraced by most societies. When it happens so, the woman is responsible of making important decisions that pertain their relationship, family and investments. On the other hand, the man is engaged in activities like cooking, washing and taking care of the children among all other tasks that women usually do.

The perception of many that the men are the superior beings still holds. The reversing of roles may mean may be due to, probably, a way of a husband expressing their love to the wife. It also shows that they are concerned with their well being, and hence sharing in their duties. It is also perceived as a way of adoring the wife and assuring them that their love for them still exists, and it feels quite good with the women.

These arrangements end up confusing majority of women. It feels so weird to them when they notice that their partners have taken a back seat and left them in charge of running their home. For ladies with a domineering attitude, they will see this coming at a distance. Whether this happens or not, understanding and respect for each other must be maintained.

In some instances, men who are victims to such are likely to get moody as they advance in age. This may happen because these men will be sensitive to things around them and as a result develop the moody attitude. In case of intimidation they will be driven by the feminism in them and end up letting them take the leadership roles.

The roles revolution is a kind of an intricate case. Should you think of getting involved in the same, it is important that you conduct a comprehensive research and clearly understand the objectives and intensions of undertaking the same as well as their intensions. Swapping roles may be a little tricky, and especially in the cases where children are involved. It may be hectic and annoying to handle kids and this may render the man gloomy and regretful.

For successful role exchange, establish good communication with your partner. Do not forget that it is a whole new world and getting insights is important. You can learn tips and guidelines online or other available resources. Some of them may seem easy but very hard to implement but it is good to get unique means of dealing with specific issues that may emerge.

For one to succeed and live a normal life, these men should network with others who have taken up these roles. Make sure to meet other people who are in the same position as you. This establishes the friendship that leads to idea sharing in different levels. In the end, this means you are now able to become proficient with the new tasks daily.




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