What Are We Really Giving?

For many, it could be the holiday season a time of tension and conflict . In this spirit , I thought it might be useful to focus on that part of being on the concept of giving and doing.

Really the best way to deal with any act of giving or doing two questions one .1. What is the intention behind my give or take ?2. I do not feel that I "should" or " should" do?


This puts us in harmony with the power behind the work , and serve as a guide to how they really feel . This is very important because it determines whether we are in a state of balance or alignment .

If we discover that things like commitment , guilt , pressure, etc. We are in the answer to the first question , or we find our answer is a resounding yes to the second , then we are not in equilibrium . We now have the key to the alignment of our.

If we choose to respond to the action , and this imbalance can be expressed in many ways . For example , you may find yourself full of unexplained anxiety , impatience and frustration, resistance, depression, sadness or anger .

The solution is to learn how to reorganize our energy from the proposed work . By changing our sense of "duty " to do something " want to do " something reorganization . We move from the negative , which is the point of resistance to the positive , and this is the point of stimulation.

Now for some of you who read the last paragraph , you might say . "It is impossible for me to ' do not ' give a gift for my sister because I do not like ," Well, our discontent / commitment, which is the " duty / should be " a source of energy imbalance . We will discuss how we can change that to " want " dynamic .

At this time, and your focus is on he does not like his sister , who , as we mentioned , is the "duty" of power as a motivating factor behind the gift. What if we were to adjust its focus away from something he did not like and focus instead on something you do not like ? For example , perhaps you have a good connection between you and your spouse ?

This now becomes the focal point of all gifts . I really feel that you and your wife make a great team . Enjoy this regard in your life dramatically, and therefore , is not an extension to give gifts . Do not focus on what can go these gifts , but the focus on the intention to give them . In this example , this is a great connection with his wife .

Now the key is to continue to focus on what positive because, as mentioned earlier, is the point of stimulation. Be careful here 's our egos and hidden traps attracted by our own feelings negative is one of them .

If I tried last year and feel your focus to break the negative , and then ask, " Is what I feel differently about it? " The answer will give you the motivation behind the work . Maybe your subconscious is TRUE for another solution because the negative enjoy unconsciously .

People , and there is always a layer needs work . It is up to you to make you interesting enough to find something to do . After all, it is your life and the quality of which depends entirely on you!