Saturday, December 28, 2013

Built to Last - The Roof

In my work to deal with the behavior of the marriage ceremony , marriage and premarital counseling , I discovered things about the wedding , you can compare to a good marriage to build a house .

The last point I want to address is the roof of the house, and how it applies to their marriage. What is the ceiling ? In a house is a roof to keep out the elements ( rain, snow , etc. ) from entering the house . It also preserves what is in the house to escape through the roof ( such as when your spouse bother me too much that makes you want to climb the walls and jumping on the surface ) .


Marriage is the ceiling in power in the House that the husband and wife must be respected if they will listen . If a man and a woman agree on how to resolve the dispute ? Who has the last word if ? And when it should be given that authority ? Before, during or after the dispute arose .


In marriage, husband and wife must decide how it will deal with disputes before they occur. They need to determine who or what would be a power in their lives. There are a few ways this can be treated ;


1) pair has the last word - listen here man takes his wife in mind, and do what he believes to be the best decision for the family.


2) a woman have the last word - by a woman who listens to her husband , and take his opinion into account , and do what you feel is the best decision for the family.


3) the couple refuses to move unless both agree on - and here are a couple to stop so that they can agree on a direction to move in. .


4) Address the couple to a third party to break the tie - Couple looking for an external source of their marriage they believe he cares enough about them to make the best decision .


5 ) refers to the romance and the one who is best able to make an intelligent decision - if you're married to a leader may want to rely on when it comes to cooking , or if you are married to a gardener who can learn more on the balcony of what you do. Offering more familiar with the subject.

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